Why is it
always hard to let go of someone who never fail to make you smile and laugh
most of the time? Why do we always have to feel the weight, the pain...the
loneliness. Why does it always have to take much of our time to move on and
forget everything that in real...hurts us most? Why do we have to meet someone
when we are not really sure will be there for the rest of our lives? Why is it
actually we have to get in touched with someone who is later on will leave us?
Why do you have to love someone when you are not sure you'll get the same in
return. And finally, why is it somebody or someone has to leave someone!!!!
Does this thing makes them happy? Makes them more important? much wanted? I
don't know...maybe I’m saying this because i hate leaving...I hate when someone
leaves me...and i don't leave any of the person i love. When people say
"IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE SET THEM FREE FOR WHEN IT COMES BACK TO YOU...IT IS
REALLY MEANT FOR YOU...AND IF IT DOES"NT, MAYBE IT IS NEVER REALLY MEANT
TO BE YOURS!" i always end up having a discussion with those people. I
don't believe with that sayings...because if you really love someone, you have
to fight for it! You have to do anything just to have him/her! You have to
prove that you do really love him/her. Right! for me love is selfish! There is
no UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!!! we only got that kind of love from our Mother...but i
was wrong. I never thought Unconditional Love do exist! and setting free of
someone you love is something that would really hurt you but will give joy and
happiness to that someone you love and it does give much of your love because
you give him/her the freedom...freedom to search someone he/she really
needed...really looking for! and someone he/she deserves to be with. It is
really painful, but facing all those pain will give you strength later on. And
it is something that would make us a better and stronger person. It will just
have to take some time for us to really recover from that dilemma of heart. But
there is one thing i have learned...that LEAVING doesn’t always mean he/she
doesn’t LOVE you, sometimes it is because he/she Loves you much or more than
you know...or you can give to him/her! It is all case to case basis...and you
just have to really study the situation for you to find all the answers and
come up with a better decision. So, whether Leaving or continue Loving...its
just the same...both of them can hurt us. It's just us who can decide better
for ourselves. So tell me??? would you rather love someone and to be hurt
continuously OR leave...and be hurt for a while?
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Date Posted : September 18, 2008
